Wack a Wobble Tips

  • Get Your Laughing Gear On! 
          Get out and have more fun. It takes fewer muscles to smile than it does to frown. Laughter counters
          the effects of physical stress, encourages healing and builds up your resistance to dis-ease. Laughter
          produces endorphins and these friendly fellas will give your immune system a boost.

  • Buy Yourself Fresh Flowers Each Week
          Instead of waiting - and maybe wait in vain - for a partner to buy them for you. Go out and treat
          yourself. Put them in a pretty vase where you will see them throughout the day. Even when money is
          tight remind yourself of your value and accept that treating yourself in this way is vitally important. You
          can get pick up a bunch in your local supermarket for a few pounds - the more colourful the better.  

  • Avoid Analysis Paralysis - Take the First Small Step
          We all know that place. The world has fallen in, your carefully laid plans have come apart at the       
          seams, someone has let you down big time. At times like these the problem can seem so huge, so 
          complex, so horrid or so insoluble you'd just like to walk away. Your instinctual FEAR factor            
          has taken over and you have become a victim of analysis paralysis.

          So have a darn good cry or get angry: shout, scream, swear if it helps. It is important to get it out.     
          Then make yourself a comforting drink, find a biscuit (you need love right now) and grab a pad       
          and pen. Do a Brain Blitz - write down what you could do - anything that you can think of
          as a way forward. Why write it  down? 'Cos it takes a load off your brain and dumps it on paper where 
          you can't over-think it. Then take the first step... it may be picking up the phone to a friend, going
          for a walk in the fresh air, writing an email  or doing some research on the web. JUST DO IT! That first
          step is VITAL. It puts YOU back in control and the fear back where it belongs. Well done you!